Who's Your Daddy?

   A number of years ago a seminary professor was vacationing with his wife in Gatlinburg, Tennessee where they were eating breakfast at a little restaurant, hoping to enjoy a quiet family meal.

   While they were waiting for their food, they noticed a
distinguished looking, white-haired man moving from table to table visiting with the guests.  The professor leaned over and whispered to his wife:

   "I hope he doesn't come over here."  But sure enough, the man did come over to their table.

   "Where are you folks from?" he asked in a friendly voice.

   "Oklahoma," they answered.

   "Great to have you here in Tennessee," the stranger said. "What do you do for a living?"

   "I teach at a seminary," he replied.

   "Oh, you teach preachers how to preach?  Well, I've got a really great story for you."  And with that, the gentleman pulled up a chair and sat down at the table with the couple.

   "See that mountain over there?" (pointing out the restaurant window).  Not far from the base of that mountain, there was a boy born to an unwed mother.  He had a hard time growing up,because every place he went, he was always asked the same question:

   'Hey boy, Who's your daddy?'

   Whether he was at school, in the grocery store or drug store, people would ask the same question, "Who's your daddy?" He would hide at recess and lunchtime from other students. He would avoid going into stores because that question hurt him so bad.

   When he was about 12 years old, a new preacher came to his church.  He would always go in late and slip out early to avoid hearing the question, "Who's your daddy?"  But one day, the new preacher said the benediction so fast he got caught and had to walk out with the crowd.

   Just about the time he got to the back door, the new preacher not knowing anything about him, put his hand on his shoulder and asked him,

   "Son, who's your daddy?"

   The whole church got deathly quiet.  He could feel every eye in the church looking at him.  By now, everyone knew the answer to the question, 'Who's your daddy?'

   This new preacher, though, sensed the situation around him and using discernment that only the Holy Spirit could give, said the following to that scared little boy...

   'Wait a minute!' he said, 'I know who you are.  I see the family resemblance now.  You are a child of God.'

   With that he patted the boy on his shoulder and said: 'Boy, you've got a great inheritance.  Go and claim it.'

   With that, the boy smiled for the first time in a long time and walked out the door a changed person.  He was never the same again.  Whenever anybody asked him, 'Who's your Daddy?' he'd just tell them, 'I'm a Child of God.'

   The distinguished gentleman got up from the table and said, "Isn't that a great story?"

   The professor responded that it really was a great story!
As the man turned to leave, he said, "You know, if that new preacher hadn't told me that I was one of God's children, I probably never would have amounted to
anything!"  And he walked away.

   The seminary professor and his wife were stunned.
He called the waitress over and asked her, "Do you know who that man was who just left who was sitting at
our table?" 

The waitress grinned and said, "Of course.  Everybody here knows him.  That's Ben Hooper.He's the former governor of Tennessee!"

                 by Dr. Fred Craddock
(seminary professor of homiletics at Emory University in Atlanta)

"If Children Live"

If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn and be judgmental.
If children live with hostility, they learn to be angry and fight.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to be shy and withdrawn.
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty
If children live with tolerance, they learn to be patient.
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with praise, they learn to appreciate.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with acceptance and friendship, they learn to find
love in the world.         --Dorothy Knolte

You can't be all things to all  people.
You can't do all things at once.
You can't do all things equally  well.
You can't do all things better than everyone else.
Your humanity is  showing just like everyone else's.

So...

You have to find out who  you are, and be that.
You have to decide what comes first , and do  that.
You have to discover your strengths, and use them.
You have to learn  not to compete with others,
Because no one else is in the contest of "being  you".

Then...

You will have learned to accept your own  uniqueness.
You will have learned to set priorities and make  decisions.
You will have learned to live with your limitations.
You will  have learned to give yourself the respect
that is due,
And you'll be a being that's vitally alive.

Dare To  Believe...

That you are a wonderful, unique person.
That you are a  once-in-all-history event.
That it's more than a right, it's your duty, to be
who you are.
That life is not a problem to solve, but a gift
to cherish.
And you'll be able to stay one up on what used
to get you down.
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